Several Steps to Stay Strong in a Desperating Life Sequence

"I feel such a burden feeling lately and I just lost my spirit of life. I don't know what to do now. Do you have any suggestions?". 

Especially for women, sometimes we heard our friends murmuring in a whole day like that with an expression of inconvenience on her face obviously at the same time. Maybe you will muttered yourself and questioning "Why do you act like you are the most suffered people, huh?". Well... almost people ever experienced a problem in their life. No one in this world would be able to live their life seamlessly without any problem, even few. 

Problem is something which is undoubtedly exist and will remain there until the end of the time. A problem was sent to our life to measure how strong we are against the problem of our life. Who of you that never meet a prob during your life journey?. I expect none of you did.

God created us in a perfect condition to be able to survive and maintain ourselves since we are still exist here as a human being. Through my life, I am holding on a proverb of mine. It was "nothing is impossible to be done since the thing is something visible". In bahasa ngapak (dialect of Banyumas, Central Java) we can translate it to be ora ana barang sing ora mungkin nek kuwe anu barang keton.

Yupp! Although it is just a proverb of mine but it is right and can be matched to what happened in the real world. We are strong and almost can do anything as long as we have strong willingness to it. I don't wanna tell you a bullshit or patronizing you but I just want to tell you about what I have done. 

So, everything I write here is a reality that ever happened in my life. In this very occasion, I want to share you about how to stay strong when you feel like you drowning deep. 

The story of my life is actually so full of values that can be shared to the world, to encourage people who ever been in such erratic condition like mine or even worse. That was a time, first, when there is a place in my heart which is full of spirit. Unfortunately at another time it just lose its essence. Yes I ever experienced an emptiness that so much haunting me. 

A big problem came to my life without permission. To be honest, it was so sad to be in such condition. There was a time that I lose my fire. I feel that I didn't know where to go when  my compass broken. No one is likely to believe on. 

I decided to handle it myself without anyone else's helping hand. I lost my trust because of an inferior betrayal by my best friend (but no more for now). 

Since, I realized that I have to rekindle that encouragement soon as possible. I have to burn my spirit again. Consequently, here I will give you some words on how to stay strong during your sad time based on my own experience:

1. Always let God helps you by praying to Him.

2. Share and ask suggestions to people you trust.

3. Goes to a quiet place, with beautiful scenery is better.

4. Calm your mind, take a deep breath.

5. Do your hobby.

6. Hang out with your friends.

7. Doing some sport will actually help.

8. Write your bad feeling down on a piece of paper, throw it away.

9. Don't let yourself day dreaming.

10. Create a fine work.

11. Gathered with a positive people.

12. and so on.

Alright, they are activities that I usually do when I feel such burden feeling. So far, it really really works for me. I hope that it works for you too. What a wonderful feeling to be able to help others release their burden. I am seriously hopeful for that positive effects to you guys. Never let yourself get falter so you will find how precious your life is!.

God always has a perfect planning for us. So, just be happy.

Cheers! ^_^

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